Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Making Changes – Be Bold Skincare

Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Making Changes

Lose Weight. Meditate. Exercise. Don't Drink Alcohol. Drink More Water. Eat Less.

We live in a time when our lives have never been busier and yet the expectation to live our healthiest life has never been higher. I know I'm not alone in feeling this pressure to results in one thing - guilt. I end up feeling guilty because it seems like a full time job to check off all the "healthy living" boxes each day. That's why this article by Marissa Vicario at Charlotte's Book was so motivating to me She outlines a simple plan to help make these healthy habits just that - habits. Enjoy!

How To Really Make A Healthy Habit Stick



If there’s one trend I’ve noticed among women who are trying to create healthy habits, it’s that they think that being healthy is equivalent to eating a perfectly clean diet, going to the gym every day, meditating for an hour each day and more. If and when they slip up (because, life), they let it throw them off track.  Healthy habits are a result of consistency, not perfection. Here are 5 ways to cultivate healthy habits without expecting perfection:


Making changes can be intimidating and jarring if you try to do too much at once so I encourage everyone I work with to make small changes. You don’t have to go all out all at once. Take a few right actions and build on those. If you don’t know where to start, start with what you CAN do. Maybe it’s drinking water or a green juice daily.  Or taking a morning walk. Do what you can and once you’ve made those few small actions healthy habits, add on from there.  This is how small changes lead to big results.


The purpose that connects you to your goals. It helps shape your long-term vision. If it’s just to look good in a bikini or see a certain number on the scale, you’ll only get so far before you throw in the towel. What is your bigger reason? Yours might be for long-term disease prevention or to have more confidence so you can grow your career, or maybe it’s to set a good example four your family. It can be anything a long as you feel deeply connected to it.


Statistics show that when you have accountability, you’re more likely to reach your goals. If you know that you’re more likely to stick to a fitness plan if you have a workout buddy, then find a friend who has similar goals and create an alliance or if you’re trying to make healthy habits stick, join a group of people with similar goals who can help you do so. If healthy weight loss is your goal, maybe you work with a coach who can give you the support and accountability you need to get there. Choose someone who will challenge you and stretch you outside of your comfort zone.


Scientific research shows that it takes anywhere from 18 to 254 days to create a habit. My experience shows that the best way to create a habit is to practice the habit you’d like to cultivate – maybe it’s morning exercise, meditation, journaling, drinking warm lemon water every morning – it could be anything. The key is to keep practicing it consistently and set out to do it for 30 days straight. There will be times during those 30 days when you won’t want to do it. Force yourself to do it anyway. If you miss a day, just get back on track the next. Keep practicing until the feeling and experience you create by doing it is one you can’t imagine living without.


Just like you schedule important meetings in your calendar, it can also work wonders to schedule your meals and workouts. Make it a habit to take a look at your week ahead and plan around your schedule – decide in advance which days you’ll go to the gym, which nights you’ll cook at home, what you’ll eat, what ingredients you need and when you’ll go to the grocery or place an online order to get them. Then block time for it all and schedule it in just like a meeting or a doctor’s appointment. If it’s in your calendar, you’re more likely to be committed to it and stick to the plan.

September 16, 2016 by Anne Tamkin
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